SoShawna is married to Elton O. Gray II, and they reside in Hawaii with son Samuel and soon-arriving daughter. A voracious and eclectic reader, SoShawna has been known to read several books concurrently, ranging from Ramona Quimby or Pride and Prejudice to a college textbook detailing criminal law or medieval midwifery. She has a deep desire to be involved in the writing ministry and hopes to continue pursuing her literary goals in addition to fulfilling her calling to be a wife and mother.